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From stressed to blessed…

From stressed to blessed…

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“Are you prepared to embark on a glassy smooth sailing sea, kind of adventure; a joyful journey with a group of amazing and oh so peaceful people, sharing their own special gifts in a fun, uplifting, inspirational and encouraging community”? “

How would you like to go from being stressed to blessed”?

I know what my answer would be, “YES”!

These are just a few of the questions that I have pondered for half a century. In my search for the answers, I admit that as much as I am a fact checker and data sleuth, deep inside I have always known that there had to be such an experience because it is instinctually where I have been heading for as long as I can remember.

Imagine the size of our family!! 31% of the world’s 7.3 billion people are christian and make up the largest religious population in the world. This is according to a study in 2015, reported in 2017 Pew Research, FACTANK, BY CONRAD HACKETT AND DAVID MCCLENDON

Wait a minute! WHAT? ONLY 31% of the World’s population are Christians?

What happened to,”Your offspring shall be like the dust of the earth, and you shall spread abroad to the west and to the east and to the north and to the south, and in you and your offspring shall all the families of the earth be blessed.” – Genesis 28:14

Once while speaking in a Collegiate Lecturing Class with the subject matter being Utopia: I remember how difficult it was to speak about a place and state of mind that wasn’t factual. I wondered why I was able to believe in God, The Bible, Christ, when I had never actually seen them. Yet I have faith, and unconditional love knowing that The Word is real.

For the sake of myself and my children, I must ask the hard questions, gather facts and stories, diving deeper, yet without becoming overwhelmed? How to convey that digging deeper into The Word, can release joyful and shareable experiences with an understanding; the kind that can leave an impression, and last a lifetime. Sometimes it knocks me down a few pegs when I realize…

How do I justly instill the importance while sharing these thoughts with my children?

With the realization that we are not alone, and each one of us has amazing gifts and perspectives to share, and we can do so with kindness and christian theologian absolutism. What a gift! Thank you, GOD!

Meet Kimberly!

Kimberly strives to walk with peace, love and joy, through faith in Christ. She is a passionate mother of 3, and is grateful for the friendships with her church family, a strong foundation built from the love of Christ. She has been asked to provide a few thoughts on this inspirational blog, because she is one blessed momma!

Kimberly would best be described as a wildflower, growing wherever she may be, especially at the beach, and most always with her children and pups. She enjoys nature and through the years has been wonderfully blessed by living and working in and outside of the USA. Her most memorable family activities include camping, biking, hiking, rafting, skiing (both snow and water), swimming, kayaking, canoeing, all the while and on a daily basis, being completely in awe and humbled by God’s creations in the world around us.

She loves helping others uncover their potential, their inner joy and sense of fulfillment in their daily tasks, and has done so in the home with her children, as well as serving in the community, while finding examples and ways to continue growing and maturing in faith. Kimberly is a by-line writer, restaurant review critic, and her advanced studies in college included Early Childhood Education and Medical Laboratory Sciences with a specialty in Microbiology. She enjoys writing about life lessons, has an entrepreneurial spirit, and hopes that her life experiences help provide guidance for other mom’s to go from living a stressed life to having a blessed one!

God Will Make a Way

God Will Make a Way

Hello beautiful blessed mommas!

I’m new to this crew of lovely ladies, and actually very new to this momma crew all together!

My son, Benaiah (pronounced Ben-I-ah), will be one year old next month! I can’t believe how fast he has grown! A little bit about me and my family, my name is Mikayla Cogburn, (yes like Rooster Cogburn) I’m 25 years old, I live in a very small town in beautiful Southwest Colorado. I’ve been married to my best friend for almost 4 years now and together we have the cutest baby boy in the whole world! (I may be a little biased.) I am a doula and a childbirth educator as well as a mom, wife, auntie, and sister.

My husband, Aaron (not Rooster) just finished his certifications and started working at our local fire department as a firefighter and EMT, he has worked so hard and continues to work so hard for our little family. He is one great husband and Daddy. 
I have had quite the interesting intro to motherhood, with having a baby in the year 2020! (Which is the year, I think we can all agree, that we’d like to never repeat.)  it was a hard year to be sure, but 2020 was also a true Testament to our family of just how GOOD God really is, even when we are surrounded by the worst circumstances.
Fortunately for us, God’s goodness isn’t dependent on the circumstances we are in, He is good, just because that’s who He is. And He will always make a way for His people, no matter what.
Isaiah 43:19 “Behold I am doing a new thing; do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and Rivers in the desert.”
My mantra for 2020 was, and still is, God will provide. It was a year full of tests for our family, (and I know we weren’t the only ones.) We had zero dollars in our bank account, a brand new baby, and Aaron was in the middle of fire Academy and working every other day in Albuquerque, 3-hours away, just so we could scrape by on bills.
Then when Benaiah was two weeks old we realized that he wasn’t getting enough milk from me, and he actually started to lose weight. (Talk about a recipe for stress.)
I won’t go into all of that or every little thing that happened last year, let’s just say that this theme stayed very consistent for the whole year, right up to the very end.

After my son was born, I felt like a rockstar, like I could conquer absolutely anything, climb any mountain, overcome any obstacle.

Basically I was sitting on top of the world!

But as soon as I started having issues with breastfeeding, that feeling was replaced by an opposing feeling of total failure.

I thought, this is one thing I’m supposed to be able to do, what’s wrong with me? I felt totally worthless, and I know I asked God over and over again to just help me be able to nurse my baby. But God didn’t answer my prayer the way I wanted.

I couldn’t breastfeed my baby exclusively the way I wanted to, the way I planned to, the way I made.

But God sometimes makes a way where we didn’t think to look at first.

My midwife and friends came through with lots of donor milk for Benaiah, and gifting us formula when God knew we didn’t have any money for it. My son never went hungry and he continued to gain weight at great rates, going from the 17th percentile to the 34th in his first 3 days on a bottle, and now, 11 months later, my chunky little boy weighs 25 pounds, is more than 30 inches tall, and is wearing 18 month clothes. I think he’s getting plenty to eat, and his growth is definitely not stunted!

God provided, God made a way for me.

Motherhood is messy, life is messy. So often all we see is the mess we are in, and not God’s Way through the mess.

How can we possibly see the way He has made in the middle of the mess we are in?

Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your path known.”
Psalms 119:105 “Your word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.”

The answer is to talk to God about our mess and surrender it to Him, to look to his word for guidance and Hope, and then to be still and listen; waiting for the peace of God to come, and to allow ourselves to focus on that peace, rather than the mess all around us.

John 16:33 says that we are guaranteed to have trouble, but that Jesus himself is already conquered it all, he paved the way and that way is him.

In the Gospels, there is an account of Jesus walking on water towards the boat His disciples were in. Walking on water is a feat in and of itself! But the water was rough, waves crashing all around the boat, lightning flashing, and rain pouring down. The circumstances couldn’t have been worse. And yet, Peter, a zealous disciple of Jesus, got out of the boat, the only safety human eyes could see, and he walked on the water towards Jesus.

Good ending right? Well, as most of you know, that’s not the end to the story. Just like us, Peter got distracted, he started noticing that he was walking through choppy, rough water, he started feeling how heavy the rain was, his eyes caught the lightning, and suddenly he was no longer walking on the water towards Jesus, he was in the middle of an unforgiving sea struggling not to drown.

And he did exactly what we have to do, and what I did so many times over the last 11 months, he cried out to Jesus and said “Lord, Save me!”

Jesus walked over, took him by the hand, and pulled him out of the water.

Jesus is calling us to walk in his way, to walk on top of storm, not to be overwhelmed by it. The only way to do that, is to never take our eyes off of Him, and to keep putting one foot in front of the other until, one day, we reach his waiting arms. And when we get distracted by the mess around us, He is waiting to catch us, wipe our tears, and help us to keep on walking.

Meet Mikayla!

I am Mikayla. Mommy to my adorable 11 month old baby boy, wife to my incredible firefighter hubby, birth worker and aspiring doula. I love my saviour and my family and am very passionate about helping women to feel empowered during their pregnancy, birth and postpartum. My goal is to be an encouragement to the mommas in my life through sharing my experiences and offering a loving and supportive place for them to share their stories and be heard. God bless you in this season of life and may His perfect peace rule your hearts. 

Colossians 3:14-15 “And above all these things put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.”

Managing Your Emotions God’s Way

Managing Your Emotions God’s Way

Nothing can ever prepare you for the overwhelming emotions you feel when becoming a new mother. I know I wasn’t prepared for it. Add being a military spouse on top of that, my emotions seem to have amplified.
Oftentimes, those emotions can turn negative. Almost as if the enemy knows when to attack. I know I’m not the only one, but sometimes, my emotions can get the best of me. I’ve found myself turning to God more than ever in this new motherhood season that I’m in.

Back to our emotions.

Consider the word itself: e-motion. Emotions move you to action. Your emotions originate from your thoughts. If your emotions are based upon lying thoughts (those that do not agree with God’s word) then they can lead you to take ungodly actions.

Here’s an example: I suffered from anxiety for many years. It came in many forms from being obsessive with things having to be a particular way to doubting my God-given abilities to walk in the purpose He’s destined me to walk in. While the feeling was true, you would have never thought that with as much as I’ve accomplished in my life, that I would have suffered from that. But, the enemy doesn’t care who you are. Satan, the enemy, will try to capture whomever he can to keep us from the Truth (God’s word). Nonetheless, these anxious thoughts are based on a lying thought. If I had not questioned it (and persistent thoughts like them), they would have led me down a horrible path.

The enemy often sows lying thoughts into Christians’ minds, specifically, mother’s minds to keep us from the very thing that made us that. A mother. We can live in His peace when we develop His mind according to 2 Corinthians 10:5: “casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ…

Because Jesus is the living Word, your goal is to assess your thoughts to ensure they agree with His word. Not only that, but as mother’s we are the cornerstone of what our children consume and that goes for how we deal with stress and a plethora of other things that they may adopt into their own behavior. Here’s one question you can ask yourself when feeling anxious or down:

Acknowledge your feelings, but then ask yourself,

“What must I believe to feel this way?”

That always helps me to uncover the thought behind the feeling and see if that thought agrees with God’s word.

For example, I believed that nobody cared for ME after I had a baby. I thought that all people cared about was this precious baby boy that my husband and I created. To take the thought captive to the obedience of Christ, the next question is important: “Is this thought true?”

Looking at God’s word in 1 Peter 5:7 revealed to me why my thought was a lie: “casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.” So that scripture told me that God cares!
Remember: Just because you “feel” an emotion doesn’t mean the thought behind it is true. As mothers, whether new or veteran, we have to keep our thoughts AND actions pointed to Christ. Because our little blessings are most certainly watching! And I don’t know what’s more of a blessing — the little ones we get to shape into the body of Christ, or the fact that we are IN Christ’s body because of the ultimate sacrifice. We’ve got it pretty good if you ask me!

Meet Kiara!

Kiara is a sister in Christ and is a new mom to a sweet baby boy named Carter Emmanuel. She’s also a military spouse and will be moving to New Mexico in spring 2021. Kiara is a stay-at-home-mom and lifestyle influencer and uses her platform to share the word of God along with her passions of motherhood, homemaking, and fashion/beauty. You can check out her YouTube channel here and follow her on Instagram to get the most up-to-date information on her day-to-day life. Lastly, she will be launching her own website, www.thekiaraj.com, soon and would love to have you as a part of her growing email list so that you can be the first to hear about announcements, giveaways, and more!